Forgotten Stress and Pain Release

I was watching a Documentary the other evening. I think it was called, "Heal". It was interesting, but nothing new, until they started talking about releasing hidden, forgotten and ignored pain and stress that went all the way back to childhood.

The idea is forgotten stressors act upon our body chemistry, causing autoimmune issues and certain types of disease because our body's healthy chemical balance has been suppressed for many years and less than stellar chemicals are roaming around in their place wreaking havoc on our well being.

This sounded like it was coming from Carney Row at the County Fair. I understand being stressed, but wasn't too sure I bought into the chemical imbalance that unrelieved stress brings about. Except they had a number of people including at least one person with stage four cancer who swore it is true, because they all reversed their illnesses through releasing hidden pain and stress.

The thought of buried, hidden stress release was a new idea to me. One of the experts in the Documentary said in his opinion there, 'is no one size fits all cure or fix'. Yoga and meditation in the morning may work for you, seeing a therapist for emotional issues may work better for me, as I understood his opinion.

The Documentary moved on to a Woman who was working with a practitioner who used EFT. EFT is interesting because it involves physical action to distract our brain. We repeat an EFT Practitioner's verbal suggestions while being physically distracted with tapping or rubbing or both.

At least that is my limited understanding from the documentary and one small EFT book I read some years ago. EFT is effective because it is a kind of distraction meditation. Spoken suggestions are put on a direct path to the brain because the subject is distracted with the physical distractions being induced by the EFT Practitioner.

In the Documentary, the EFT Practitioner was doing her thing, tapping away, and telling the patient to recall a painful moment, and at each memory recall, repeat the phrase, "I love you then", or something similar. Later in the show, the Woman claims her hidden pain and stress was eventually all gone (released), and her very serious health ailments had disappeared.

I like everyone else have long term and buried or forgotten pain and stressors hidden away in my brain. I decided because I meditate often, I would skip the EFT part and go with the, "I love you then" for the known stressors I could remember. I wasn't expecting a lot, because it seemed too simple. I am skeptical. I want proof.

I started with my biggest stress, 'White Coat Syndrome', and all the memories that keep it fresh and make me want to run, not walk out of Doctor and Dentist offices. The earliest memory I could recall was being six or seven years old sitting in a Dentist chair.

I was going to receive a shot of Novocaine for a drill and fill for a bad tooth. The Dentist who I suspected in later years was a drunk, put the glass Novocaine vial in the needle and moved it towards my mouth. It slipped and fell to the floor and broke.

He picked up the broken glass vial pieces and the now useless needle. He said, "This is your fault, you little shit", and stabbed the knuckles of my right hand with a piece of the broken Novocaine vial glass leaving me with a lifelong scar. Upon recalling this memory I said, "I love you then".

(The Dentist came up with a believable story he told my Mother afterward that was not questioned, of course as he was the Dentist - authority figure)

Now I am remembering other bad dental and medical memories that made their long forgotten presence known, followed with my repeated, "I love you then" comments. Time disappeared replaced with, "I love you then" comments flowing through my mind at each remembered memory.

I realized something changed after a (unknown period of) time. The voice saying, "I love you then", was not my voice. It was coming from somewhere else, and the memories of painful and stressful times of my life arrived without any prompting. I was now a watching, hearing observer of those times in my life that stressed me out or caused pain, of which I had long ago forgotten about.

When I 'awoke' some time later, I knew I still wasn't through with the memory recall and the, "I love you then", comments. Amazingly, I felt like one-hundred pounds of just below skin level stress had left me! I felt so relaxed, I thought if I were to take my blood pressure, I would probably be concerned because it would be so low.

If you are used to meditating, you may be able to duplicate the results I did without any EFT stimulus. If you do not meditate, you may want to read up on EFT, and pick a few EFT movements that feel right for you as you try out the process. Better yet, find an EFT trained person to work with you.

I do not know what exactly happened during my experience, or if my body's chemical structure has started to change, but something good definitely took place. I felt so at peace and relaxed, it felt abnormal in the moment.

Twenty-four or so hours later, it feels a little hokey writing this. I still feel very calm and at peace with the world. Something definitely changed from the time I decided to try this process to the time I stopped. I will be doing this again, perhaps many times, until I feel there is no more hidden stress and pain to release. I highly recommend you try this process. I am still skeptical about the process. I am looking forward to some months in the future to see what lasting changes have taken place.

Gluten Intolerance - The Hidden Illness

I spent over forty years of my life not knowing I was [wheat] Gluten Intolerant. One doctor even suggested I was faking an imaginary illness, and wasting his time. Instant Illness and recovery was a roller coaster ride with no explanation.

Gluten intolerance when I was young was practically unknown. My father had it and was not aware of it. In the last year of his life, his stomach would swell, looking like he swallowed a basketball. He would be in great pain from the swelling.

The doctors in our area at the time were ignorant of gluten intolerance. All the doctors agreed on, was when a patient's stomach swelled like that, they had between six months and a year to live. My Father was no exception to that rule.

Though I did not know it at the time, my first symptoms came in the form of brutal hangovers. Most people have a hangover that lasts for part of a day. Mine would last two to three days.

At first I thought it was drinking too much. I paid attention to the amount I drank and found it was what I drank, not how much. If I drank wine, the next day I would feel pretty normal. If I drank beer, it was a totally different story. I would be sick for a couple of days.

In my thirties came my insta-sick problem. I suffered from extreme tiredness at times. Feeling like I had been exercising for hours and was completely worn out. I just wanted to lay down and sleep. For no reason I would feel like I had the flu, minus the fever. It would last anywhere from a few hours to a few days.

Some family members had thyroid conditions, with two having their thyroids removed. I was sure thyroid was my problem. Thus started my search for relief from the Doctor's, "Nothing wrong with you", declarations.

After a slew of doctors and continuing negative thyroid tests, my thyroid was boringly normal. They also agreed en mass I did not have Lupus. One doctor offered Seasonal Area Depression as a cause, but that only explained the winter months. Finally, I gave up on doctors finding what was wrong with me.

I was cruising into my forties around this time. I started keeping a food, exercise and illness log. Nothing seemed to relate to my feeling bad. Whether I ate salads, vegetables, or meat and potatoes, sudden flu like symptoms came and went. I had a cycles of constipation followed by diarrhea. Joint pain joined my list of complaints. Then another oddity. I dropped floaters and they smelled sour almost like vinegar. It did not seem to matter what I ate.

One day I received a call, and the caller told me after five doctors they found a cause for their mood swings and our shared flu like symptoms. What was Gluten Intolerance I asked? I had never heard of it. After it was explained to me, I thought, well this can't be me, I generally eat wheat cereal for breakfast, sandwiches for lunch and bread with dinner and I am okay.

I gave it a try. After four days of no wheat products, I woke up feeling literally thirty years younger. I did not believe it was possible to feel so good! To say eating gluten free is a lifestyle change is to say climate change is a minor inconvenience.

If you go through constant periods of bloating, constipation, convulsive diarrhea, illness and fatigue, you may be gluten intolerant. There is of course a blood test you can take, but the simplest test is go on a completely grain free diet for a week and see how you feel.

Gluten Intolerance is a real problem, and hides itself as a cold, flu, allergy, and food poisoning part of your thinking process. Gluten Intolerance hides very well. There is always a reasonable explanation of why you feel so poorly. It was thought to mostly affect people of European descent, but as the years roll by, they know now people from every nationality suffer from it.

There is a blood test you can get. The easiest test is giving up every food with grain in it including liquids for a week. Read the label of every food you put into your mouth. If after a week of not eating, drinking, or ingesting wheat gluten in all it's forms, you do not feel like a new person, wheat gluten may not be your unknown issue.

Giving up wheat gluten means reading labels of every food you eat, even your soap and shampoo and lotion. If you wear makeup, you need to read the ingredients of it too. When you eat out, there may be wheat gluten on your french fries or in your mashed potatoes. Almost always on breaded foods, such as fried fish. Cheese and ice cream contain gluten because it is a cheap thickener. If you can not identify the ingredients as you look at it, it probably has wheat in some form in it. Thank the food industry for this.

This is taken my own experience with Gluten Intolerance, so take what I wrote for what it is worth. 

Here are a couple of links for further reading, if this is of interest to you:

Hidden Sources of Gluten

8 Foods to Avoid with a Gluten Intolerance (and 7 to Eat)

Sources of Gluten

In my opinion, the food industry is out of control. Almost all, "Oat Cereals" contain large amounts of wheat. Much of the food we eat has some form of wheat gluten in it. About every third bowl of a GMO oat cereal causes me problems. Soaps and shampoos are a minefield of inflammatory dangerous chemicals that make me sick for the sake of profit.